Secret Nicknames Royals Have Behind Closed Doors

If you were to ever come into direct contact with the queen, how would you address her? According to the royal family's official website, there actually aren't any hard and fast rules when it comes to meeting British royalty. So, you could technically shout out "Hey, Liz!" to the queen or "What's up, Bill?" to Prince William, but most people choose to address the royals using "traditional forms."

For men, this would mean a bow and, for women, a simple curtsy. Handshakes are also acceptable. Additionally, there's a traditional order when using royal titles. "On presentation to The Queen," the site explains, "the correct formal address is 'Your Majesty' and subsequently 'Ma'am'..." When addressing other female royals, the appropriate address is "Your Royal Highness" followed by "Ma'am." It is much the same when addressing male royals as well: Begin with "Your Royal Highness" and use "Sir" for all secondary interactions. While these titles may work for us, how do the royals address one another? In public, they default to the "traditional forms," but what they call each other in private is a totally different story. Here are some of nicknames used within their family.

When Queen Elizabeth II was young, her father, King George VI, is reported to have said, "Lilibet is my pride. Margaret is my joy." Margaret is the late king's second and youngest child, but who is Lilibet? According to Hello! magazine, the queen's mother and father, as well as her grandparents, used to affectionately call her "Lilibet." As a child, the then-princess had trouble pronouncing her name. Apparently, the nickname stuck and was used as a term of endearment.

Although the nickname "Lilibet" is adorable, the phrase in which it was used sounds a bit cringeworthy. Was he calling Margaret his favorite? Netflix's "The Crown," which is not a documentary but is based on facts, addressed this topic in "Pride and Joy," the eighth episode of Season 1. In the show, the Queen Mother says their father "didn't have a favorite" and that he loved them both and "did so equally." While we have no way of knowing if this conversation actually took place, we hope it did.

Express speculated that the phrase may have been more about their personalities and positions. Elizabeth, or Lilibet, may have been his pride because she was to become queen and was a more serious child, whereas Margaret was his joy because of her free-spiritedness.

In the 2006 film "The Queen," Prince Philip, who is played by James Cromwell, calls Queen Elizabeth II (Helen Mirren) "cabbage." Though the film is fictional, the real Prince Philip did refer to his wife as a leafy green plant at times.

"I inquired in royal circles and was told on very good authority that that is what the duke sometimes calls the Queen," Peter Morgan, the screenwriter of "The Queen" told The Times. Robert Lacey, a British historian and the queen's biographer, also confirmed the use of the nickname, saying, "Yes, I've heard that is how he will sometimes refer to her."

But why in the world did Philip choose to call his wife "Cabbage"? The prince himself never explained the nickname, but The Times said it could be a derivative of the French term of endearment "mon petit chou," which, when translated to English, means "my little cabbage." Inevitably, that would make the cruciferous vegetable a much better — and arguably sweeter — nickname.

When Prince Harry and Meghan Markle attended a gala performance of "Hamilton" to benefit Sentebale, a charity that helps African children affected by HIV, the couple looked to have a fantastic time. Perhaps so good of a time that they got a little too comfortable than is typical for royalty. As reported by royal correspondent Emily Andrews, Harry thanked the audience, as well as the cast and crew, and even sung a couple bars on stage.

As a video clip shows, Meghan also let her guard down when she and Harry posed for a photo. Because she was standing in front of her hubby, she turned toward him and asked, "Can you see, my love?" The cast immediately started awwing at the adorable moment and Meghan became aware of what she'd said. "Oh!" she can be heard saying as she put her hand to chest and let out an embarrassed smile. Cutest couple ever? Pretty much.  

Meghan doesn't just dole out nicknames, she's earned some herself. In a video shared by The Royal Family Channel, Harry can be seen trying to get his then-fiancée's attention while at the crowded Invictus Games reception in London. "Meg, Meg!" he's recorded as saying. Okay, so his nickname for Meghan isn't quite as cute as her nickname for him, but it does demonstrate their laid-back and unstuffy relationship. It's also probably best that Harry opted for "Meg" or else he'd have to compete with Meghan's mom, Doria Ragland, for cutest nickname — and there's no winning that match.

When Meghan shared a quote from Ragland on her now defunct blog, The Tig, Meghan also revealed her mom's nickname for her. "I don't know, Flower. You were just born that way," Meghan quoted her mom as responding when asked how she maintains a balance between work and humanitarianism. Meghan continued, "'It's just who you are,' she says. (And yes, she calls me, 'Flower.')" 

When BBC's "The One Show" interviewed Princess Eugenie and Jack Brooksbank about their then-upcoming wedding, the princess referred to the queen as "Granny." In a speech thanking the queen for her support to over 600 charities, Prince William referred to his grandmother by a variety of titles, including "Her Majesty," "Head of State," and "the Queen" before announcing to the crowd that he'd like to personally acknowledge her. "Granny, thank you for everything you've done for your family," said the prince. Following suit, Harry also addresses his grandmother by a title other than Her Majesty. When visiting schoolchildren in a remote part of New Zealand, they asked him if he calls the queen "Nana." Harry replied, "I call her Granny."

The queen's great-grandchildren, on the other hand, have a different nickname for their royal great-grandmother — or at least Prince George does. In a clip of the documentary "Our Queen at 90" shared by Entertainment Tonight, Kate Middleton revealed, "George is only two and a half. He calls her, 'Gan-Gan.'" Queen Gan-Gan does have a nice ring to it.

During official engagements and interviews, William routinely refers to his wife as Catherine, not Kate as you might expect. In private, or at least when he's not speaking to the public, the prince calls her an even more endearing name than "Kate." According to Express, William is "regularly heard calling her 'poppet' in public." While "poppet" is not a word you hear very often in the United States, it is a common British term of endearment meaning "sweet or pretty child." 

In addition to poppet and, of course, Kate, the duchess used to go by another name when she was younger. "I was nicknamed Squeak just like my guinea pig," she revealed in an interview (via Glamour). "There was one called Pip and one called Squeak, because my sister was called Pippa and I was Squeak." There's no telling if she'll answer to Squeak these days, but it seems poppet and Kate have stood the test of time.

Until the early 1900s when it was first used to describe a woman, the term "babe" was only applied to children and didn't have any sort of romantic connotation. And it took until the 1970s before a man would be called "a real babe," according to The Cut. Nowadays, we pretty much call everyone babe, except for babies. Funny how that works, isn't it? You may be surprised to learn that even the royals have used this word. 

When Kate Middleton was attending the Royal Horticulture Society Flower Show, she apparently slipped up and called her husband by the nickname. Charlie Albone, the garden's designer and Australian television presenter, told the British "Today Show" (via Grazia), "[Prince William] came up and said: 'What [flower] is this one?' After he answered the prince's question, Albone revealed that "Princess Catherine just turned to him and said, 'Babe, we've got those. We've got loads of those.'" Prince Babe it is. Got it.

Even if you've been following the royal family for a long time, you probably don't remember hearing about Prince Fred and Duchess Gladys. You will, however, know them by their other (ahem, real) names. When Prince Charles and Princess Diana were not yet married, the princess found out about his affair with Camilla Parker-Bowles. Diana recounted the tale to her biographer, Andrew Morton, and said she'd found out about a bracelet her then-fiancée had made for his mistress. Morton wrote about their conversation in the late princess' biography, "Diana: Her True Story — In Her Own Words." "It's a gold chain bracelet with a blue enamel disc," she told him, "It's got 'G and F' entwined in it, 'Gladys' and 'Fred' — they were their nicknames." If the couple used the pseudonyms to avoid suspicion from the princess, it obviously did not work.

Further painting a picture of their grim relationship, the princess divulged, "He took the bracelet, lunchtime on Monday, we got married on the Wednesday." In 1996, Charles and Diana divorced and, in 2005, "Gladys" and "Fred" got married.

Prince Charles wasn't the only one to have earned a nickname from an affair. "While she raged against her husband's infidelity,"  the biography "Diana" states, she, too, was cheating on her spouse. Although this man was reportedly not her only extramarital lover, the book highlights her "brief dalliance with old friend James Gilbey." 

Between 1989 and 1990, the princess' phone calls were recorded and, some years later, her affair with James Gilbey would become public knowledge. The pet name Gilbey used to refer to Diana would also be revealed. As reported by The Telegraph, Gilbey called the princess "Squidgy" some 53 times. According to the Cambridge Dictionary, "squidgy" is a British word that means "soft and wet and changing shape easily when pressed" — similar to the American word "squishy." You can only imagine how red Gilbey's face must've been when the embarrassing nickname was heard around the world.

When interviewed for NBC's "Dateline," William and Harry reflected on their childhood nicknames — at least one of which came from their mother, Princess Diana. "It began when I was two," William said of his nickname, "I've been rightfully told because I can't remember back that far." When in Australia with his parents, they learned of the wombat, "the local animal," as he explained. "So I just basically got called that. Not because I look like a wombat," he added, "Or maybe I do." Harry joked that his older brother was really called Wombat because he was too lazy to walk and, instead, crawled until the age of 6. Nice, Harry.

William went on to reveal that one of Harry's monikers was "Ginger." Of Harry's other nicknames, William explained, saying, "Most of them I can't call in front of here. You know, a bit rude." Oh to have been a fly on those palace walls.

While Princess Diana's relationship with her father-in-law, Prince Philip, would eventually fall apart, the two were quite close for a time. Royal biographer Ingrid Seward told Us Weekly that it was Prince Philip who helped the young Diana navigate the ins and outs of royal life. Even after Princess Diana and Prince Charles separated, Prince Philip continued to correspond with his daughter-in-law, offering her advice on how to repair her relationship. "If invited, I will always do my utmost to help you and Charles to the best of my ability, but I am quite ready to concede that I have no talents as a marriage counselor," the royal wrote in one letter (via Reuters). Diana's nickname for Philip in their correspondence? "Dearest Pa."

Sadly, the father-daughter-in-law relationship between the two did not endure through Charles and Diana's breakup. Seward noted in "Prince Philip Revealed" that Diana eventually grew to resent Philip's meddling (via People).

Meghan Markle and Prince Harry's firstborn, Archie, came into the world in 2019. And media outlets have, of course, called him Archie in their reporting, but it turns out that the Duke and Duchess of Sussex refer to their son by a bunch of other names. For example, in a 2020 video call with the Rugby Football League, Prince Harry referred to his baby boy as "little man." Adorable.

In a May 2020 Instagram video for Save the Children U.K. on Archie's first birthday, during which Meghan read a children's book to her son, she could be heard calling him "Arch." She's also been overheard calling him "Bubba," as Harper's Bazaar noted. 

Prior to their exit from social media, Harry and Meghan also referred to Archie as "our little pumpkin" in an Instagram post wishing their followers a happy Halloween.

Princess Diana's devotion to her sons was legendary. She had some cute nicknames for her younger son, Prince Harry, including one that paid tribute to her family, the Spencers. While neither Princess Diana nor Prince Charles had red hair, having red hair runs in the Spencer family, which is where Harry inherited his red locks. This, along with Prince Harry's resemblance to Diana's sister, Sarah, led to her dubbing her younger son "my little Spencer," noted E! News.

Diana also reportedly called Harry "GKH," an acronym that stood for "Good King Harry." While royal correspondent Robert Jobson said in the documentary "William & Harry: Princes at War?" (via Express) that the nickname came about "because she thought he'd probably be better equipped for the role [of king] in the future than William," Princess Diana never publicly commented on which of her sons she thought was better suited for the throne of England.

Many people don't realize that Prince Harry's name is already a nickname. Per Vogue, his actual given name is Henry Charles Albert David — we can't blame the royals for wanting to shorten it a bit! Meghan Markle takes it one step further, though, referring to her hubby by the short and sweet moniker "Haz."

The world learned of this nickname when Prince Harry appeared as a guest on "The Late Late Show." During the show, host James Corden took Harry's phone and called Meghan. During the video call, the Duchess of Sussex referred to her husband as "Haz." Corden expressed surprise at the name, saying, "I didn't know we were calling you 'Haz' now." It seems Meghan is the only one who gets to call him this, though, considering Prince Harry's reply: "You're not my wife."

Meghan also shortens Harry's nickname even more sometimes, as she revealed in the documentary "Harry & Meghan: An African Journey" (via PopSugar). Meghan's even shorter nickname for her husband condenses the already brief "Haz" down to a single letter: "H."

You may be familiar with the name Queen Elizabeth II, but what about her alter-ego, Queen Gary? Okay, this isn't actually an official title, but we wouldn't been surprised if it's been uttered in the halls of Buckingham Palace once or twice. How did the queen get saddled with a nickname like Gary? This is one of those adorable stories that can be chalked up to little kids having trouble pronouncing certain words.

In this case, the word in question was "granny" and the adorable little tyke was Prince William. The Daily Mail noted that a guest at Buckingham Palace observed a young William crying for "Gary" after falling down. When the guest asked who Gary was, it was the queen who answered. "I'm Gary," said the monarch. "He hasn't learned to say Granny yet."

While Prince William has since learned to say "granny," we can just picture him referring to his grandmother as Gary behind closed doors just for laughs.

Meghan Markle hasn't had an easy time of it since joining the royal family. Not only has the press hounded her, but she has also said that she felt less than at home in the royal family. She revealed in an interview with Oprah Winfrey (via NBC News) that, at one point, she "just didn't want to be alive anymore."

While the royal family may not have approved of Meghan and Harry stepping down as senior royals, despite them doing so to escape an environment that was clearly not good for their mental health, it seems that Prince Charles had a lot of respect for Meghan's strong nature. This was evident in the secret nickname he had for her: "Tungsten."

As royal correspondent Russell Myers revealed on "Lorraine" in 2019 (via Express), Charles nicknamed her after the metal as "she is tough and unbending." For those of you who haven't brushed up on your knowledge of metals in a while, Sciencing notes that tungsten is the strongest naturally occurring metal on the planet.

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Being the heir to the throne is sure to set you apart, but Prince George seems to be blending in well at school considering the decidedly non-royal nickname that he goes by there. A parent of a student at his school told Vanity Fair that the future king of England is called "P.G." by his classmates. "He's very popular and has lots of friends, and there's very little fuss made about who he is," they said. 

While it's kind of hard not to know who Prince George is, especially with the Duke and Duchess of Cambridge dropping him off at school, his royal status is downplayed on campus. People noted that, at school, Prince George goes by the less-regal name of George Cambridge. While the royal family's last name is actually Mountbatten-Windsor, we can understand why his parents would have him go by the less fussy moniker.

Princess Charlotte's nickname isn't exactly unique, but it is awfully adorable. People noted that, like Prince George, her royal roots are obscured at school where she goes by Charlotte Cambridge rather than by her royal title.

At home, though, Charlotte's name is abbreviated to "Lottie." The Daily Mail reported that Kate Middleton let the nickname slip when speaking to a woman in Northern Ireland.

While, according to Behind the Name, Lottie is a common nickname for Charlotte, as well as the name Liselotte, Lottie is also quite popular as a given name in its own right and is in the top 100 names for baby girls in England and Wales. It's nowhere near as popular as Charlotte itself, though, which is in the top 20 names for baby girls — it looks like quite a few people are naming their little ones after Princess Lottie!